Keeping your Zen …that’s how you win…Dance through the Holidays

8 11 2012

ImageI feel amazing….I am psychedfor the holidays, traveling, belly dancing and playing with my friends and family….I LITERALLY FEEL ENERGIZED HEALTH through each cell….Ba-bye cancer…..hello dance, loving my honey and traveling to new adventures…going to Phoenix this weekend , next weekI start our Belly Dance with Nacheska into the holidays series…super  run way to play every day and let the speciql holiday “feelings” envelope us in love and warmth…check these classs workshops out

Week ofNovember 11thFeatured class workshop is

thankful Taqsim-From the smell of cinnamon in a morning drink  to the chill in th eair that blows the joyous holidays to us ,this class/workshop will be a welcoming mix of belly yoga styledtretches and the  graceful moves of middle eastern dance taqsimto put our minds and bodiesi nto  a joyful welcoming of the season; offerings of this  classwill be November 13th Tuesday morning at 9:30, November 13th Tuesday at 7:00. Satrday morning17th of November at 9;30 am…location 280 Sports building studio…limited space soRSVP today via email tonacheska@nacheska.com)text or call

Week of Novemer18th Shimmy into the Holidays  OK, admit it,we are thinking parties, events, galas and goodies…so this shimmy class will work off the treats before they settle anywhere…a hour of shimmy syles and combos…really great fun to get you stronger and leaner to upbeat drum rhythms… Dates and times: Monday the 18th of November 7:00, Tuesday a.m.the 19th at 9:30…bring your water  bottle0)  RSVP817.798.7185 Read the rest of this entry »





You don’[t know me

23 10 2011

Nacheska and ElvisToday a young man left my costume Shoppe at an extremely busy time while yelling over his shoulder…”I hope you go out of business”…Let me set this scene, we are family owned, loved and operated and my immensely busy and kind friends help out this season of Halloween costuming out of kindness and enjoyment. It is one week before Halloween… They love waiting on folks, helping them with their costume and the general feeling of merriment. We had a great day with lots of wonderful customers that were pleased and delighted…but this day brought someone that was a little demented and dissatisfied with their life and ability to find a costume to yell out something mean on his way out of my little shoppe. Well I want to say this to this coward…”You don’t know me” In fact, you do not know my staff or the hours and love we put into every costume and accessory. You do not know that I am a mother, grandmother, pet owner, dancer, teacher, business owner, sister, aunt, …you only know that your selfish needs were not met and all the frustration had to come out of you in an ugly way.

So if you are not satisfied with anyone or any business at any time and you have any class at all….just leave….that is enough of a statement. Really no one wants to see your bad side and “You don’t know me” or my family or friends but I know you are someone I do not wish to know or visit my Shoppe again. So do me a favor, pretend I am out of business, because “You don’t know me”….and gratefully I don’t know you.

Happy Make Believe,

Nacheska





Is it just me….or????

30 03 2010

When I was a little girl, I dreamed of far away places and when I turned 12 my dad was stationed in Germany…wow, what an adventure for a little girl in an upper lower class neighborhood in El Paso!  I looked forward to the plane ride…I had never been on a plane before and knew it was something luxurious that only special people got to do…most of us just rode around in cars for the small adventures that life afforded us.  The plane ride was all that I had hoped for…nice flight attendants, good food and lots of it…and movies and comfortable seats…it was fun (probably not for my mom with 4 children but I loved it)…later in my life as a struggling performance artist and teacher, plane rides were few and far between but still held that same joy and thrill for me…and then came September 11th, the sad fateful day that too many tragedies happened…the one I want to speak about is how the airlines changed on that day, now terrorizing us passengers.  http://www.usatoday.com/travel/flights/2010-03-18-airplanestranded18_ST_N.htm

Another article is :

http://www.usatoday.com/travel/flights/2009-11-24-dot-minnesota-stranding-fine_N.htm

Of course I could go on and on and on and on…but I still would not equal the length of time that airlines are holding passengers hostage with their lack of common courtesy and inhumane treatment…I have personally found the only airline I currently trust is Southwest…but even so, they do not fly everywhere  and if I can drive to my destination …I do.

Why must we stay on a tarmac with no food or water for 1, 2, 3, 4, up to 8 hours…???  Maybe we should put a few of the airline’s owners or the head of the FAA in such horrific circumstances and then watch how quickly laws are enacted to give us rights…http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17173370/

But really why do we have to enact laws for us to treat each other like human beings who matter???  Why would anyone think it is ok to keep perfectly nice human beings…neighbors, friends, you and me hostage in a plane for hours?…ouch!  This is a sad day and I am not a little girl anymore and I don’t want to go on a plane adventure anymore…because staying on a plane sitting still heading nowhere being treated badly…that is not my idea of fun or even decent transportation.  What has air travel come to???  It is going into the gutter…oh wait, I mean the tarmac…





Life is like a small business

21 03 2010
Odyssey Costume Shop
Picture of the Shop from the doorway

Alrighty then, I was being interviewed by the author Marilyn Sweet who wrote the book “Profitable 5K Business” on her internet radio show.  Marilyn asked me how I started in the Costume Shop business…well I didn’t actually know I was going in the Costume Shop business, it just evolved…like my life. (and this question made me realize it)

 Now anyone who owns a small business knows that what we first thought our business was going to do and be is not precisely what it turned out like.  Actually, that is a lot like us…the way our life starting out, our hopes and dreams and direction may not have evolved exactly how we thought.  I opened my little Shoppe to be a dancewear store…as a dance teacher for 22 years, it was a natural evolution from wearing dancewear all day and night to selling it, since I knew a lot about it.  Several times a year, my students and I would do shows and utilize costumes but I did not give them much thought.  However, much to my surprise, when I opened my little Shoppe, folks were more interested in the few costumes I carried than the leotards, tights, skirts and shoes.  That business was being focused inside the new dance schools themselves as they internalized the dancewear business and did sales right inside the studio.  I did not know a lot about costumes outside the dance performance arena but I soon did some research and learned what my customers wanted and where I could get it…but there were some expensive mistakes along the way since this was not initially my area of expertise.

When I was a little girl I knew I wanted to be a dance teacher…as a young woman I wanted to be a college professor of the dance.  But as a child of the 50′s I wanted the wife mother to be in the equasion too.  Whew, boy was I wanting it all.  I married a stranger, divorced with a young child, worked 4 jobs, went to college 3-7 hours a semester and finally graduated 10 years later….hmmm, not what I envisioned in the beginning…and I was no closer to that college job as I was still working on the degree to get me there…then I remarried, opened a studio, had another baby and tried to make it all work.  This was not my original plan but as anyone would, I went with it.

In business, my first little shop just about broke even in 3 years…but something came up…a career in acting.  Since I was still performing a little in the dance arena, I stumbled on an opportunity to impersonate Marilyn Monroe and it bloomed into a better business than the Shop…so I closed the shop and went on tour for a year or so. (what happened to selling dancewear?)  But the glamour of being Ms. Monroe soon waned and I settle back in Texas looking for another opportunity while temping in an office.  It was handed to me in the form of teaching/training folks in the Web computer arena in a specialize medical field. (not the professor job but maybe I was getting closer?)  The corporate environment was hard on this artistic spirit so I looked into an opportunity to have a small sideline business in the costume dancewear business I still was intrigued with so I took some of my corporate earnings and sublet part of a storefront and paid someone else to run it…renting and selling costumes all year…and after a year, I was pushed to make a decision due to my fathers waning health and a layoff by the corporation…they wanted to keep me full time and I was only working part time…so I went full speed ahead and worked in my little store and tried to build up the business.  

In business, we have to make policies…about the employees, the customers, the hours, the marketing etc….and when we open our small business we have a vision but we need to be able to yield to what life brings and our customers needs.  One of the wisest tidbits I gleaned from another business person was in the Book “Pour your heart into it” by Howard Schultz and that is “never say never.”  Policies need to yield, we need to yield and bend and weave through life…just call me Gumby! 

…there is so much more to write but my Shop calls me…

Happy Make Believe,

Nacheska





Killing Germs…dispelling some myths and the good news!

20 09 2009

So I am listening to my sweet Grandaughter singing Happy Birthday while washing her hands and so I ask about it.  My daughter says it gives her a timeline to kill the germs since children do everything in hyperspeed… which is true.  Well I knew that Antibacterial Soap did not have much benefit over regular soap (AARP article “Mythbusters”) but little did I know the great benefits of alcohol based hand sanitizers. (and AVON has them for just 1.99 )  It turns out alcohol, vinegar, lemon juice and bleach are great at murdering the really bad e-coli and other staph germs (though bleach is probably not the best choice environmentally)  So according to the experts at FDA then washing with antibacterial soap is about the same as plain soap and water…the period of time is important so sing Happy birthday 3 times or just sing…good for the world and good for your health…bad for germs.Marilyn

 





Is Texting the next opportunity to be rude…

4 07 2009

As a Shop owner, there is rarely a day when a customer comes into the store that is not huddled over their phone while trying to do business with me…they want service but their attention is distracted and I wonder if the event they are going to (since they need something from my fun make believe store) will have their undivided attention.  I know I did not get their attention.  I have seen teens out on dates sitting at a table texting.  Are they texting each other?  Have they lost all social skills?  My opinion does not count to them but even college students have seen that it is distracting  when discussing it among their peers.  There are some that just don’t get it still…that they are saying loud and clear …this person on this text is more important than you are….once again “Do I matter to you?”  and the offender is clearly saying no.

thumbnailtextThis may be the next opportunity for a book in Sociology,  “the effects of cell and text use in communication” (if it has not already been written)  The question is, do I now add this to my ban of cell phone use while requesting service?  Now I say (along with the signs in my Shop) “I will be happy to help you when you are off of your cell “.  What verbage is next? I will be happy to help you when you are off of your PDA?   Don’t text while you try to talk to me?  Talking is quicker so put the phone away for another time at play???  If anyone who owns a business has come up with a pleasant solution please let me know…because these are nice people with an ugly habit.

*Here are some notes from folks in the know about cell phone/IPOD/texting ediquette:
“Do I need to remove both earbuds from my IPOD when running into a friend or client?”

Jodi R. R. Smith, author of From Clueless to Class Act: Manners for the Modern Woman ($10, amazon.com):  If you’re having more than a two-minute conversation, then, yes, both buds need to come out―whether you turn off the device or not. And that goes for your Bluetooth earpiece, too.
Joni Blecher, editorial director of LetsTalk.com: Yes. People want to know that the person they’re talking to is really paying attention to them.
Sue Fox, founder and president of EtiquetteSurvival.com: Remember―etiquette is all about making the other person more comfortable. How comfortable could your friend be trying to talk to you when you’ve got something in your ears?

Remember, you are going to have a lot of fun in my little Shoppe exploring, discovering and playing pretend…so put that discussion on hold and look around (not down)…





A hmmm moment…why can’t schools of higher learning figure out how to design enough parking spaces for everyone attending?

12 06 2009

There are many great mysteries to life…but this one always stumps me.  I am very impressed with college campuses of all types and have been to many.  But of University of Texas at El Paso, TCU, SMU, University of Texas at Arlington, Texas Womans University, Texas Weslyan University, and our local Junior college parking spaces are like gold …complete treasures and impossible to find making many students (myself including) late to class in the search of the elusive resting place for our vehicle.  Whenever I am looking for an ice breaker question I ask…did you have enough parking spaces at your college…everyone I have ever chatted with says “no”…so what about it?  Has anyone out there ever always had a place to park (commuter students only)

Isn’t this simple Mathematics?  so many students…so many vehicles…so much space needed to park?  I am certain that this would be a great problem or study for any math dept…so tell me please…where are the appropriate amount of parking places at institutions of higher education? 

image Until the next mystery of the modern world…Happy hunting! (of parking spaces, that is…)





Recession Depression (candy is dandy)

19 03 2009

Alrighty then, I am out of audio books and that means that occasionally I listen to the radio…huge mistake!  Doom, gloom, good old boys getting richer, families struggling, fat cats skimming the hard earnings of everyone, and bad news abound.  I am raising my hand right now to say that I would not turn off the radio for good news…that there are stocks doing well, Mrs. (insert your name here) has met their financial obligations and then found time to volunteer at the local seniors center/nursing home/meals on wheels.  This is happening….good things are all around.  Why just this morning I got the greatest email …that the All Candy Expo is at MccandyCormick Place in Chicago on May 18-21.  Now I have been to a lot of conventions but wow, this would be a fun one.  I can just smell the sweet scent of sugar in the air.  My taste buds would go on overload, my inner child would awaken, and I might even want to open another business. 

What does this have to do with the recession you wonder?  Well…it’s just this.  Businesses are still open for you (all of them have not gone under or robbed you of your life savings or borrowed from the government), people are still working and earning and living (the whole work force has not been laid off), schools are still educating our children, we are still planning our summer vacation or home improvements though perhaps a little gingerly, my dog still loves me and I am still able to help my friends who are struggling right now in my small way ….and there are still Candy conventions, Easter eggs, bake offs, scholarships for hard working students, children,  chocolates, another day….so enough with the doom and gloom already.  We have enough in our own lives to manage…do not give me an overload of it in the media.  Can good news have equal billing please?????

Wake up…the world is an opportunity not a problem…and I am checking out more books straight away!:0)





Do I matter to you?

18 05 2008

OK, so my mom and I are in Starbucks and patiently waiting our turn in the line, when I realize the hold up…both folks at the counter are on their cell phones while the poor barista is trying to communicate with them.  Are they so important that they cannot get off the phone long enough to order their coffee/pastries?  Does the person waiting on them mean so little to them that they must be rude and mean-spirited?  It is obvious to them only that they are the center of the universe.  It is obvious that no one or nothing matters to them, not even ordering their coffee…they must certainly matter to the person they are talking to on the phone or else why would it be stuck to their ear when they are at a public counter.  This is the epitome of rude self centered grotesque behavior.  You will matter more to me if you will smile, speak directly to me, and give me your attention.  Then I will do everything I can to keep the smile on your face.  But I will never do all I can toimage keep the phone on your ear.

“Do I matter to you” is a concept that was conceived by an old friend of mine in his book “Things that really matter”.  One of the things that should matter to us all is each other as human beings that care.

By the way, they never got off the phone from car to counter to car again…secure in their smug indifference.  No one I wanted to know anyway…





Cookies!

18 02 2008

I love cookies…I admit that. If you know me, you know that though I am a dance and fitness mommy for several wonderful folks, I love cookies. Now let me clarify…I do not love just any cookies. Like most in my generation, I love homemade cookies or fresh cookies. Why? (when Oreos are so good?) It’s like cookies this…they evoke thoughts of times when neighbors sent cookies to welcome you into the neighborhood. Times when money was scarce (non-existent) but there was sugar flour, eggs love and time so the gift was something from the kitchen that said “you are special”…”you rock”…”I love you” ….”I want to get to know you” (enough to mess up my kitchen, watch the oven, and give you cookies I want to eat myself)

Weirdly, this blog entry is not about that…it is about cookies someone has given to me! Not me personally….friend mommy crazy redhead…but me the BUSINESSWOMAN…wow!!! These cookies were thank you cookies from an organization/individual and from a customer who I went a wee bit out of my way to assist…(and both in one week!)

In both cases I did a little driving out of my way at a very busy time to drop off a forgotten costume piece for a child and then in the other case, picked up a costume a bit early that was needed for a Christmas Parade. Neither was a huge inconvenience but the payoff was Yummy….for the child I was repaid with scrumptious chocolate chip muffin style cookies with a reeses mini peanut butter cup in the middle…slurp!!! In the other case, the dropped off goody was soft melt in your mouth sugar cookies from a local bakery….gone in a flash!

Now this may sound like a description of how much I like cookies but it is not…It is a reminder that we often will not give the gift of time or just plain cannot give that gift…but when we do, the payoff is GREAT….it is cookies…in the form of a kind word, an appreciative smile, and a new friend or if you are very lucky….you’ll get COOKIES!!!!








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